6 Signs That He’s In Love… and How To Make Him Desire You Like Crazy!

6 Signs That He’s In Love… and How To Make Him Desire You Like Crazy!

“When you fall in love, the natural thing to do is give yourself to it. That's what I think. It's just a form of sincerity.” ― Haruki Murakami

If you’ve known a guy for some time now, and you’ve got the hots for him….

…you probably want to know if he feels the same way.

More than that, you want to know if he’s falling head over heels in love with you.

Many women find themselves in a “he loves me, he loves me not” type of situation where things are ambiguous.

And if you’re reading this, chances are you want some clarity on your situation, too.

Uncertainty is a scary thing, especially when it’s your heart on the line. You might have gotten burned before, and you want to make sure what you’re getting into before you go “all in.”

So I get a lot of friends and clients asking, “How do I know for sure that he’s falling in love with me?”

To get to the bottom of this matter, I decided to get the inside track and pick the brains of guys who are in happy, committed relationships.

I went straight to the source so I could get the honest, unfiltered truth about what goes on in a guy’s head when he’s seeing stars and feeling those fireworks with you.

Take Nate, a classical guitarist from Arizona, for instance.

He's been married for 25 years now, and he was more than happy to share how he felt when he first met his wife, Suzanne (names have been changed for privacy reasons).

Here’s what he said:

“Before I became a musician, I served in the military. I won’t go too much into it, but I saw some action… and that left me scarred.

The first two years after I came home, I struggled with how I looked and the fact that I wasn’t the same person anymore, physically and mentally. I tried getting back into music, which was about the time I met Suzanne.

It wasn’t at all like ‘Love at First Sight’… I just saw her as an acquaintance. I was probably too caught up in my own stuff to notice her, anyway.

But then something inside me clicked. As I got to know her better, I found that we had a lot in common, especially when it came to music.

Then I started noticing other stuff about her, like how she runs her fingers through her hair, and how her eyebrows arched. It sounds silly I guess but I sort of just appreciate those small things.

Oh, and her laugh! I swear it’s the most amazing thing I’ve heard in my life… it’s like her laughter could solve world peace or something.

And then suddenly I couldn’t get her out of my head. I just liked everything about her, from the way she smelled, to how she spoke and a million little things that made her perfect.

It was like looking at a painting at an art gallery. At some point the colors just popped out and the details came alive.”

And that, ladies, is a man in love.

I see the same thing in older folks, too. Nate’s story reminded me of my friend’s grandparents. It’s very subtle, but it’s the most amazing thing ever.

When they’re together, I can see his grandpa’s eyes light up. I could tell how differently he saw her from other people - it was all over his face.